Tips on How to Ask a Girl on a Date

A lot of men find it difficult how to ask a girl on a date. Although they find this a challenging task, going out on a date is one of the things they want to do most. Here are steps on asking a girl out to make it more relaxing.  

Break the Ice

If you have just seen the girl for the first time, go up to her, introduce yourself and find a way to compliment her. You can say she looks pretty or she has a great outfit on. If you already know the girl, you can approach her and chat for a moment. When you take the time to talk with her, you will know if you want to spend more time with her. The technique is to break the ice first and get to know her better.

During your initial conversation, know what her interests are. Ask her about her hobbies, talents, skills and activities she loves doing. If the girl is a stranger to you, you can play a guessing game where you will take a guess on her likes and dislikes. If you guess wrong, at least you will get the conversation going. 

If you see that she is having fun with the conversation, start dropping hints about going out together. If she says she likes action movies, you can tell her that you do too and it would be great if you watch a movie together. If she scoffs at you, she is not interested. If she says yes, it is time to proceed to the next step. 

Ask for her number and then inform her you would like to see her again. You can ask her for that movie date or ask her if you can accompany her to any event you think she would enjoy. When you ask the girl on a date, do it casually. Do not just drop the bomb on her but say it in a conversational manner.

When the date is set, plan it out carefully. Know where you will take her and when it would be. Once everything is set, call the girl again. Introduce yourself once more and chat for a while. Invite her again to that date. Remember not to ask her out on a date via email or personal messaging on the internet.

If you still have no idea where to take her, try the movies. Watching movies together is a good start because not much conversation is needed. You can also go to a sporting event, a concert or an art exhibit. Have dinner with her afterwards. If she declines, ask her if she has a conflicting schedule. You need to know if she is not interested in you so that you would not waste your time by asking her continuously.

Things to Remember

There are a lot of things to remember on how to ask a girl on a date. When you ask her out, be polite. When you do go out, be punctual and be yourself.

Ask her our directly instead of having prepared lines. When you have a speech prepared, this would not come out normal. Say what is on your mind as this will sound more natural. When you employ a direct and polite approach, the girl would appreciate this all the more. 

Ask her out in person. If you do not have the confidence to ask her out, you can try asking her out through the phone. If you still feel less confident, practice your lines before dating her.

When the girl refuses your invitation, never plead. If she says yes because of your persistence, she will never have fun and so won’t you. Go out with a girl who also wants to go out with you.

Never take it personally when the girl refuses your invitation. You can continue speaking to her for a while. Thank her for her time and leave. If you take her rejection politely, she will appreciate you all the more and may even become interested in you. If this is a person you know from friends or from work, take time to know her more. This may make her like you eventually and may say yes on your next invitation.

When you go to her, make sure you are properly-groomed and nicely dressed. However, do not overdo it as you may end up being overly dressed than her. Just stick to your own style and be clean and neat.  Make sure you have a good breath, clean teeth, clean nails and a fragrant smell.

Have different subjects that you can discuss about together. This can include your personal stories that are funny, her own stories that you would like to know about, hobbies and each other’s families.

If there are awkward interruptions in the conversation during the date, know that this is normal. Lots of first dates have such interruptions. However if these interruptions last long, it just means she does not want to continue speaking to you. End the conversation as politely as you can, ask for the bill and drive her home or hail a cab for her.

Know these tips on how to ask a girl on a date and you may find yourself taking her out repeatedly.